Neighborhoods like Le Marais in Paris, the French Quarter in New Orleans, and the East Village in New York City are frequently celebrated for their historical significance, cultural diversity, architectural charm, artistic and bohemian vibes, lively street culture, and tourist attractions.
The decision to not simply visit, but to temporarily stay or live in an entertainment district or a bustling tourist hotspot like these may offer advantages such as better or more convenient access to cultural and recreational activities, diverse culinary experiences, nightlife and social scenes, job opportunities connected to these venues, and in some cases more affordable rents.
But this choice also means that both short and long term residents must deal with an array of challenges related to these unique urban public spaces.
For example, residents frequently encounter a tsunami of loud, distracted, and sometimes drunk pedestrians, and smells from restaurants, garbage, sewage gas, etc. Additionally, loud music coming from live performance venues and nightclubs, occasional street musicians, constant vehicular and pedestrian traffic, street noise produced by road and sidewalk repair, delivery vehicles, garbage trucks, etc., can lead to heightened stress levels, disrupted sleep patterns, and even mental health issues.
During the sweltering summer months, the absence of air conditioning (which is often the case in European cities) forces residents to keep their windows open, exacerbating the intrusion of external noise, smells, etc.
To mitigate the negative effects of living in such areas, it’s often helpful to implement a bunch of strategies or coping mechanisms. These can include:
* Soundproofing: Staying in residences, hotels, etc., that have invested in soundproofing materials for windows and doors to minimize the impact of external noise on indoor tranquility.
* Creating Calm Spaces: Designating quiet areas within your home, or the hotel you stay at complete with relaxing elements like plants and soft lighting.
* Using White Noise: Use white noise machines or smartphone apps to create a consistent background sound that masks intermittent disturbances.
* Noise-Canceling Headphones: Utilize noise-canceling headphones or earplugs, especially when you need or want to concentrate or sleep.
* Establishing Quiet Hours: Advocating for designated quiet hours in the neighborhood to allow residents and hotel guests moments of serenity.
* Engaging in Mindfulness Practices: Incorporate mindfulness or meditation techniques to build resilience against surrounding noise.
* Exploring Peaceful Areas: Regularly venture beyond the bustling zones to explore quieter spaces (like parks, parkettes, etc.) that offer a break from the urban hustle, and
* Renting an apartment, AirBnb, etc. facing away from the noise or high enough off the ground so that these sounds are less of a problem.
While these strategies come at a cost, they empower residents to navigate the challenges of these urban public spaces, while preserving their mental well-being. And by adopting these coping mechanisms, individuals can fully embrace the benefits of their neighborhoods and enrich their urban experiences. Despite the ongoing noise, smells, etc. the pursuit of balance and tranquility can lead to a more workable and fulfilling urban city experience.
Photo Credit
Photographer: Kostas Limitsios
Title: Le Marais
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Over the past few weeks many people and entities seemed to obsess over the release of former president Donald Trump’s mugshot in connection with his indictment and forthcoming arrest, in connection with charges that the engaged in election fraud, by the Fulton County District Attorney’s (DA) office.
The focus on the highly anticipated mugshot, unleashed a tsunami of mostly creative, largely visual, and sometimes humorous and at other times unflattering photoshopped and manipulated images of the defendants who were about to surrender, those who got booked, and projections of what Trump’s image might or should look like when his mugshot is taken.
It’s not clear exactly why mugshots, photos that capture people at their worst moment, have become important cultural markers in our society. And it’s not just Trump’s mugshot, nor those of his alleged co-conspirators that capture the public’s attention.
We are fascinated by mugshots of all manner of celebrities, including musicians (e.g., Frank Sinatra, David Bowie, etc.), actors/actresses (e.g., Marilyn Monroe, Johnny Depp, etc.), sports stars (Mike Tyson, Denis Rodman, etc.), politicians (e.g., Rod Blagojevich, etc.), and businessmen (e.g., Bernie Madoff, Bill Gates, etc.).
It’s also not certain where the origins of this fascination derives. I suspect that it’s anchored in the schadenfreude phenomenon (basically the pleasure experienced when witnessing someone else’s misfortune). And it’s not everyone’s mugshot that we care about.
We are titillated with watching the rich, the famous, the boisterous, and the obnoxious amongst us get arrested, finger printed, photographed, and if need be convicted.
It’s also because we like to see a person of high stature, particularly one who is not well liked, be taken down a peg or two, a phenomenon often referred to as celebrity downfall.
For some of us, I suspect, the mugshot, and Trump’s in particular, gave us some sort of closure on the long running saga on whether or not he would be indicted, and ultimately arrested by Fani Williams, the Fulton County DA.
In other words, it’s cathartic and reassuring to witness and know that even in America people are at some level held accountable for their actions, and that the criminal justice system, as imperfect as it is, works for everyone and not just for the powerless.
The mugshot, and the activities surrounding this step in the processing of alleged suspects in a criminal case, is also part of the collective voyeurism, that we as Americans freely take part in.
We do this when we follow the highly curated social media feeds of our friends, acquaintances, relatives, and heroes, flip through People magazine, or watch television shows like “Lifestyles of the rich and famous.”
Some of this behavior is because are bored, tired and exhausted with our lives, work, partners, friends, etc. Alternatively see this kind of behavior as a result of our collective diagnosed and undiagnosed Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder.
We can probably agree that constantly refreshing our social media feeds in the hours leading up to Trump’s booking, or other similar behaviors, is not a productive or creative use of our time. Channeling our energies away from these kinds of voyeuristic activities and towards things that hold more significance, such as creating meaningful content, volunteering at homeless shelters, or even teaching a child to read, have the potential to offer us and others a much more fulfilling use of our resources.
Although numerous strategies exist to prevent us from going down social media and similar rabbit holes, we need to be more introspective and reflective of what we do, how we do it, and why. By considering the role the voyeuristic activities play in our lives, we might consider alternatives that give both ourselves and others joy, happiness, and meaning. Ultimately, by stepping away from the incessant virtual noise, and recognizing our role in this ecosystem, we be able to create space for genuine growth and impactful contributions. The next and harder part is putting our plans for change into action.
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This summer many people took breaks from their regular routines, hoping to spend their time on a range of activities from relaxing vacations to thrilling adventures.
But for many individuals, their experiences did not match what they expected and they ended up frustrated and disappointed.
More than likely, part of the reason why this occurs is that many people fail to clearly define how they genuinely wish to spend their time off work or school, or do so with unrealistic notions of what those periods might entail.
When travelers fail to define their expectations, and plan for possible outcomes, they may encounter unnecessary frustration and disappointment. Instead of coming back from a vacation relaxed and refreshed, many people return home feeling physically and emotionally exhausted because of the unnecessary and unwarranted stress they encountered.
For some, the ideal vacation involves lounging on the beach, sipping favorite beverages, and enjoying the sun. However, without proper preparation, this seemingly idyllic scenario can quickly turn sour. Crowded beaches, persistent local vendors, and concerns about personal belongings can tarnish the experience.
Similarly, even in the pursuit of relaxation, unforeseen challenges like lost luggage, vehicle breakdowns, and stolen valuables can occur, turning a vacation into an unexpected adventure.
On the other hand, some individuals seek out adventure during their break from work or school. Engaging in challenging hikes, mountain climbing, surfing big waves, canoe trips to remote areas, white-water rafting, and scuba diving are examples of this thrill-seeking category. But even among these kinds of activities there can be significant times that are boring and predictable.
Then again, some people may desire a blend of relaxation and adventure. Planning for a combination of both, or allowing room for spontaneity, when unexpected opportunities arise, can lead to a more fulfilling vacation.
That’s why it’s important for travelers and adventurers to address certain assumptions they may have about the breaks they may take. It’s crucial to carefully think through these situations, based on their previous experiences, the wisdom of experts, their own personal preferences and goals, and the reality of the situation as it develops.
Vacationers and adventurers also need to consider what they truly desire from their time away and plan accordingly.
Undoubtedly determining the nature of a getaway is influenced by numerous factors such as available resources—like amount of time off, and discretionary income. Traveling with companions, whether family or friends, can also complicate decision-making due to differing objectives.
But once that is acknowledged, the hard work begins.
In conclusion, understanding the distinction between vacations and adventures is essential for planning a getaway that aligns with travelers and adventurers desires. By defining expectations, considering available resources, and staying open to both relaxation and exploration, people can craft a memorable and rewarding break from the routine of every day life.
Photo Credit:
Photographer: Wally Gobetz
Title: NYC – Brooklyn – Coney Island – The Cyclone
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Looking for quiet in all the wrong places
/by Jeffrey Ian RossNeighborhoods like Le Marais in Paris, the French Quarter in New Orleans, and the East Village in New York City are frequently celebrated for their historical significance, cultural diversity, architectural charm, artistic and bohemian vibes, lively street culture, and tourist attractions.
The decision to not simply visit, but to temporarily stay or live in an entertainment district or a bustling tourist hotspot like these may offer advantages such as better or more convenient access to cultural and recreational activities, diverse culinary experiences, nightlife and social scenes, job opportunities connected to these venues, and in some cases more affordable rents.
But this choice also means that both short and long term residents must deal with an array of challenges related to these unique urban public spaces.
For example, residents frequently encounter a tsunami of loud, distracted, and sometimes drunk pedestrians, and smells from restaurants, garbage, sewage gas, etc. Additionally, loud music coming from live performance venues and nightclubs, occasional street musicians, constant vehicular and pedestrian traffic, street noise produced by road and sidewalk repair, delivery vehicles, garbage trucks, etc., can lead to heightened stress levels, disrupted sleep patterns, and even mental health issues.
During the sweltering summer months, the absence of air conditioning (which is often the case in European cities) forces residents to keep their windows open, exacerbating the intrusion of external noise, smells, etc.
To mitigate the negative effects of living in such areas, it’s often helpful to implement a bunch of strategies or coping mechanisms. These can include:
* Soundproofing: Staying in residences, hotels, etc., that have invested in soundproofing materials for windows and doors to minimize the impact of external noise on indoor tranquility.
* Creating Calm Spaces: Designating quiet areas within your home, or the hotel you stay at complete with relaxing elements like plants and soft lighting.
* Using White Noise: Use white noise machines or smartphone apps to create a consistent background sound that masks intermittent disturbances.
* Noise-Canceling Headphones: Utilize noise-canceling headphones or earplugs, especially when you need or want to concentrate or sleep.
* Establishing Quiet Hours: Advocating for designated quiet hours in the neighborhood to allow residents and hotel guests moments of serenity.
* Engaging in Mindfulness Practices: Incorporate mindfulness or meditation techniques to build resilience against surrounding noise.
* Exploring Peaceful Areas: Regularly venture beyond the bustling zones to explore quieter spaces (like parks, parkettes, etc.) that offer a break from the urban hustle, and
* Renting an apartment, AirBnb, etc. facing away from the noise or high enough off the ground so that these sounds are less of a problem.
While these strategies come at a cost, they empower residents to navigate the challenges of these urban public spaces, while preserving their mental well-being. And by adopting these coping mechanisms, individuals can fully embrace the benefits of their neighborhoods and enrich their urban experiences. Despite the ongoing noise, smells, etc. the pursuit of balance and tranquility can lead to a more workable and fulfilling urban city experience.
Photo Credit
Photographer: Kostas Limitsios
Title: Le Marais
Trump, his alleged co-conspirators, and our fascination with Mugshots
/by Jeffrey Ian RossOver the past few weeks many people and entities seemed to obsess over the release of former president Donald Trump’s mugshot in connection with his indictment and forthcoming arrest, in connection with charges that the engaged in election fraud, by the Fulton County District Attorney’s (DA) office.
The focus on the highly anticipated mugshot, unleashed a tsunami of mostly creative, largely visual, and sometimes humorous and at other times unflattering photoshopped and manipulated images of the defendants who were about to surrender, those who got booked, and projections of what Trump’s image might or should look like when his mugshot is taken.
It’s not clear exactly why mugshots, photos that capture people at their worst moment, have become important cultural markers in our society. And it’s not just Trump’s mugshot, nor those of his alleged co-conspirators that capture the public’s attention.
We are fascinated by mugshots of all manner of celebrities, including musicians (e.g., Frank Sinatra, David Bowie, etc.), actors/actresses (e.g., Marilyn Monroe, Johnny Depp, etc.), sports stars (Mike Tyson, Denis Rodman, etc.), politicians (e.g., Rod Blagojevich, etc.), and businessmen (e.g., Bernie Madoff, Bill Gates, etc.).
It’s also not certain where the origins of this fascination derives. I suspect that it’s anchored in the schadenfreude phenomenon (basically the pleasure experienced when witnessing someone else’s misfortune). And it’s not everyone’s mugshot that we care about.
We are titillated with watching the rich, the famous, the boisterous, and the obnoxious amongst us get arrested, finger printed, photographed, and if need be convicted.
It’s also because we like to see a person of high stature, particularly one who is not well liked, be taken down a peg or two, a phenomenon often referred to as celebrity downfall.
For some of us, I suspect, the mugshot, and Trump’s in particular, gave us some sort of closure on the long running saga on whether or not he would be indicted, and ultimately arrested by Fani Williams, the Fulton County DA.
In other words, it’s cathartic and reassuring to witness and know that even in America people are at some level held accountable for their actions, and that the criminal justice system, as imperfect as it is, works for everyone and not just for the powerless.
The mugshot, and the activities surrounding this step in the processing of alleged suspects in a criminal case, is also part of the collective voyeurism, that we as Americans freely take part in.
We do this when we follow the highly curated social media feeds of our friends, acquaintances, relatives, and heroes, flip through People magazine, or watch television shows like “Lifestyles of the rich and famous.”
Some of this behavior is because are bored, tired and exhausted with our lives, work, partners, friends, etc. Alternatively see this kind of behavior as a result of our collective diagnosed and undiagnosed Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder.
We can probably agree that constantly refreshing our social media feeds in the hours leading up to Trump’s booking, or other similar behaviors, is not a productive or creative use of our time. Channeling our energies away from these kinds of voyeuristic activities and towards things that hold more significance, such as creating meaningful content, volunteering at homeless shelters, or even teaching a child to read, have the potential to offer us and others a much more fulfilling use of our resources.
Although numerous strategies exist to prevent us from going down social media and similar rabbit holes, we need to be more introspective and reflective of what we do, how we do it, and why. By considering the role the voyeuristic activities play in our lives, we might consider alternatives that give both ourselves and others joy, happiness, and meaning. Ultimately, by stepping away from the incessant virtual noise, and recognizing our role in this ecosystem, we be able to create space for genuine growth and impactful contributions. The next and harder part is putting our plans for change into action.
Distinguishing between vacations and adventures
/by Jeffrey Ian RossThis summer many people took breaks from their regular routines, hoping to spend their time on a range of activities from relaxing vacations to thrilling adventures.
But for many individuals, their experiences did not match what they expected and they ended up frustrated and disappointed.
More than likely, part of the reason why this occurs is that many people fail to clearly define how they genuinely wish to spend their time off work or school, or do so with unrealistic notions of what those periods might entail.
When travelers fail to define their expectations, and plan for possible outcomes, they may encounter unnecessary frustration and disappointment. Instead of coming back from a vacation relaxed and refreshed, many people return home feeling physically and emotionally exhausted because of the unnecessary and unwarranted stress they encountered.
For some, the ideal vacation involves lounging on the beach, sipping favorite beverages, and enjoying the sun. However, without proper preparation, this seemingly idyllic scenario can quickly turn sour. Crowded beaches, persistent local vendors, and concerns about personal belongings can tarnish the experience.
Similarly, even in the pursuit of relaxation, unforeseen challenges like lost luggage, vehicle breakdowns, and stolen valuables can occur, turning a vacation into an unexpected adventure.
On the other hand, some individuals seek out adventure during their break from work or school. Engaging in challenging hikes, mountain climbing, surfing big waves, canoe trips to remote areas, white-water rafting, and scuba diving are examples of this thrill-seeking category. But even among these kinds of activities there can be significant times that are boring and predictable.
Then again, some people may desire a blend of relaxation and adventure. Planning for a combination of both, or allowing room for spontaneity, when unexpected opportunities arise, can lead to a more fulfilling vacation.
That’s why it’s important for travelers and adventurers to address certain assumptions they may have about the breaks they may take. It’s crucial to carefully think through these situations, based on their previous experiences, the wisdom of experts, their own personal preferences and goals, and the reality of the situation as it develops.
Vacationers and adventurers also need to consider what they truly desire from their time away and plan accordingly.
Undoubtedly determining the nature of a getaway is influenced by numerous factors such as available resources—like amount of time off, and discretionary income. Traveling with companions, whether family or friends, can also complicate decision-making due to differing objectives.
But once that is acknowledged, the hard work begins.
In conclusion, understanding the distinction between vacations and adventures is essential for planning a getaway that aligns with travelers and adventurers desires. By defining expectations, considering available resources, and staying open to both relaxation and exploration, people can craft a memorable and rewarding break from the routine of every day life.
Photo Credit:
Photographer: Wally Gobetz
Title: NYC – Brooklyn – Coney Island – The Cyclone